Daniel is 8 Months Old Today!

Wow, we can't believe that our baby boy is exactly 8 months old! In many ways, it's been a long 8 months with all the change that Daniel has brought into our lives but it's also flown by - especially when we look back at old photos or blogs and are amazed at how much he has grown and developed!

Anyway, I thought I'd share with you a cute video of Daniel that I took last Friday which captures him at the end of 7 months perfectly: sitting each time better but often followed by a loss of balance (which he loves!); flapping his arms around in excitement; energetic and happy. And if you look carefully, you will also get to see his first teeth! What a joy he is!




P.S. In case you are wondering, the pacifier in the video I gave him to play with as a toy. Daniel just never liked the pacifier; even though there were several desperate times in the first few months that we tried and wished he had!

Daniel and Ms. Stacey

After all that we went through to find Daniel a good and long-term family day care (you can refresh your memories here and here), we have had to change day care again! Azad's family has been going through a difficult time financially and so she started to get many more children - too many and it started to become a little chaotic! Also, because Daniel is part-time (only 3 days a week), she kept telling us that if another full-time infant arrived, she would have to choose the other child - even though she loved Daniel. All of this led us to change day care and to choose Ms Stacey.

Stacey was our second choice the last time we looked around for day cares and we chose Azad instead, primarily because it was much closer to our home. Stacey's day care is small, right now she only has one 4 year old and Daniel (she said that the maximum she will ever have is 3 children) and she has guaranteed Daniel's place, even though he is part-time. So we feel more comfortable with this arrangement. She is a sweet and calm lady and has very well behaved boys (ages:9, 7 and 5) who play with Daniel in the afternoon for a couple of hours after they get back from school.

Of course it was hard to move Daniel to his 3rd day care in his very short life (I never imagined it would be this way!), but at least, so far, he has not shown any signs of separation anxiety and continues to be adaptable. We hope that this time it will work for the long-term! Daniel is now beginning his second week with Stacey and has adjusted very well. This morning when we arrived he smiled as soon as he saw her and squealed when he saw Sheridan, his 4 year old friend.

We do miss Azad though; she was wonderful with Daniel and he loved it there. We will always remember how well she looked after him and how much peace she gave us especially when he first started, at only 4 months of age. Azad was also sad to say good-bye and we agreed that we would visit once in a while and that she would be our back-up day care (in case Stacey cannot take Daniel on a specific day for personal reasons).

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Other updates on Daniel:

- He's got three more teeth coming in on the top gum! His teething process is happening so fast, he had only just started getting his first two teeth a couple of weeks ago and now soon he will have 5! Amazing, I never thought it would be so quick!

- He is eating so much now, about 6 - 8 oz of food per meal! Where does it all go I always wonder as he eats and eats?! :-) He's now eating a variety of different vegetables and fruits and on Saturday we gave him chicken for the first time which he loved! Now when we put him in his high chair he starts to get excited waiting for his food. Amazing progress! Only a few weeks ago he wouldn't eat at all, remember?

Busy in October: See Slideshow

The last few weeks we have been very busy and it's been hard to blog due to: spending time with Granny Heather before she returned back to Malaysia last Saturday night; juggling work and family life; spending time with my cousin Josani and girls on Sundays; catching up with friends, etc. We've had many wonderful moments and enjoyed the wonderful warm fall days before it suddenly turned cold. It's been a joy being able to do a lot more with Daniel; we've had fun. See the slideshow below of some of our favourite photos of the last few weeks.






P.S. If you click on the slide show, it will take you to Picasa and then you can download any of the photos you like! I just love technology!

Daniel's Rapid Development at 7 Months

The last couple of weeks have been really busy and so much has been happening - I'll try to write a separate blog about that and post some photos soon. But tonight, I want to quickly write an update on Daniel's development because so much has been changing that I know I'll forget if I don't. Here are a few things from the top of my head that are exciting to us about Daniel's development:

- He is sitting now for much longer unsupported - it's so sweet to see and he gets very excited, flapping his hands up and down.

- Just in the last couple of days he has been repeatedly saying sounds such as "ba-ba" "wa-wa" and even, yes, "ma-ma!" He also said "be-be" which in Portuguese means "Baby!" Should I consider that his first word? :-)

- He has two teeth that we can SEE (if you look carefully, still quite small) on the middle of his bottom gum. First he got one tooth and then now, a second one is coming. They feel sharp and now I'm wondering about what to do in terms of brushing his teeth - we haven't started yet but I guess we should soon! Any advice on this, please do let me know! Right now he doesn't like me to even touch his teeth with my finger, so how should I do the brushing thing?

- He loves to drop his toys from the high chair and watch them at a distance; he does this over and over again, so cute (and of course, we are happy to pick them up for him! :-)). He also loves to put his toys to the side of his bumbo seat, one by one, and tries to reach them and put them back on the tray - this can keep him entertained for a long time!

- He's started to enjoy the exersaucer a lot more and even played for over an hour in it the other day! He's also starting to put a lot more weight on his legs and stands for some time in the exersaucer.

- He's been eating so well now and even has sat in high chairs at the mall and in a seafood restaurant yesterday in Annapolis. I'm also getting more confident feeding him solids in public even though it's still very messy!

- He is sleeping through the night without a dream feed!! Jonny has been faithfully giving him a "dream feed" in his sleep for months now between 10:30-11:00 pm but in the past week, Daniel has been refusing it (I think he's just not hungry). So we decided to just stop offering it a couple of nights ago and he has been able to sleep through without this extra feed! This has been soooo exciting for us because it now means that Jonny can come to bed with me again, even at 8 pm if he wants to! Wow, I thought removing the dream feed would be so much more difficult, but I guess that he is now eating enough solids to sustain him!

- It now seems that he is down to only 2 naps a day.The first one is about 2 hours after he wakes up and then the second one sometime in the afternoon, about 3 hours after his morning nap. He's been starting to have one longer nap (about an hour) but at least one of them will be his usual 30 minutes. Anyway, what a difference it has made that he is awake for so much longer and we don't have to put him down for naps every hour as we did for months. I remember he used to have 5 to 6 naps a day and this almost drove me crazy! We've come a long way! :-)


Wow, our baby is growing so fast! It truly is a joy watching his development and wondering what he will do next; thank you Lord for this experience!

Special Photos of Daniel at 7 Months

We've been wanting to get studio photos of Daniel since he was born and have finally managed to do so! We thought the photographer did a great job of capturing Daniel; babies move around so much and to get him looking and smiling at the exact moment is not easy! We are particularly pleased that Granny Heather was able to be there and that we now have a special picture of "the three generations." I personally was a bit disappointed with how I looked in our family photo but Daniel and Jonny came out great. Here are the photos!

(P.S. Daniel wore shoes for the first time that day - courtesy of Josie and girls!)

Family in Town...

We can now say that we have "family in town"; that to us is a very special and welcome phenomenon! My cousin Josani and her two wonderful daughters, Natasha and Giulia, are now living in the area! We have already started to spend a lot of time with them at the weekends and are looking forward to seeing them more and more.

It's funny because the girls have made me acutely aware that I need desperate training in "modern history" since I hadn't heard of the "pop groups" they listen to or experienced the latest technology such as the "Wii." This is so funny because I remember clearly being a teenager and feeling that my older family members had no clue about the "real world!" And now, here I am, in the exact same position! So Nana and Giugiu, I promise to get up to speed on this - I may have to write things down though cause I already forgot the name of the oldest brother of the "Jonas Brothers" - is it Nick? :-)

Jonny and Daniel with Josie, Natasha and Giulia

Having fun together...

Josie playing with Daniel - he was talking to the bottle!

And for a special treat, here is a cute video of Daniel laughing with Giulia - so happy I was able to record this special moment as we were walking in their neighborhood!

The Experience of Introducing Solids Part II

Well, thank God, little Daniel (who is now 7 months old!) is eating much better now! Thanks for the advice I received after my previous blog! After our 3 day break, we started again with pears for 3 days before trying other foods and he's now actually enjoying the experience! Hurray!!! He hasn't complained or gagged in a while and we've been finishing each meal with him happy! We even gave him prunes this past weekend to help him get through some "poop issues" :-) and after thinking briefly about the new and strong taste, he ate several teaspoons with no problem! Of course prunes also create a lot more mess as seen in the photos below! We are now getting more excited about introducing, slowly, more and more new flavors and then a mixture of them! We just keep learning that everything just happens at the right time; no point panicking or trying to speed things up - hopefully I'll remember this the next time I start to worry about him reaching the next new milestone...

Thinking about it...

I want more! Toy or prunes?

What a relief: Happy after eating prunes!

Happy Fourth Birthday Dear Holly!

Sweet beautiful Holly, the daughter of my dear friend Kristen, is now 4 years old! I first met Holly when she was 6 weeks old and have been at all her birthdays so far. It has been very special watching her grow up into a friendly, sweet, affectionate, loving and precious little girl - we just love her so much! She is so funny and witty; we love reading "The Kids' Perspective" - Kristen's record of what Holly says! We had fun celebrating her birthday last Friday and especially seeing her excitement as her best friend Riya arrived!

Beautiful birthday table that Kristen prepared for Holly

Holly and Riya: So excited to be friends!

Holly and Daniel (7 months exactly!)

Good-bye My Dear Vovó...

Saturday morning, September 27th, I woke up to the news that my last living grandparent, my mother's mother, passed away peacefully in her sleep in her home in Campos, Brazil, at the age of 94. She had always wished that she would die in her sleep and would "fly away as a little bird." I thank God that her wish was granted...

As expected, I am feeling sad with the news of her passing, but am also thankful for the long and productive life she lived. I'm so grateful that she was my grandmother and I know that the legacy of her life will live on in those who knew her or heard about her.

There are so many reasons why I'm thankful for her. She was a very wise, strong and hardworking woman who did her best to bring up her 12 children (only 8 made it to adulthood), in very difficult circumstances. She had many "sayings of wisdom" that my mother frequently repeated, and still repeats, which I hope to pass on to our own children. She was very affectionate and I will always remember her love and affection towards my grandfather - who passed away about 7 years ago, after 66 years of marriage!

But I think that what I will remember the most about my grandmother, were the beautiful blessings she gave me every time I spoke to her. My mother taught me that each time I started a conversation with my grandmother (and grandfather) on the phone or in person, I needed to start by saying "Blessing Vovó." My grandmother would then reply something like: "May Jesus bless you my child; may He give you health, happiness, and love." When I was younger, her blessings were a lot longer and I would always listen attentively (even as a child, I knew they were special), but as she grew older, they were short and sweet, similar to as quoted above.

Now that I look back, I appreciate this beautiful tradition, but also recognize that her blessings were much more than just a custom. They were her heartfelt prayer that Jesus would indeed bless me, the way she hoped. Though in my life so far I have not always experienced "health, happiness and love" as she wished, I believe her prayers have been answered: God has blessed me with the faith to believe in Jesus, the person she always asked to bless me, which is the greatest blessing I could ever receive.

So to my dear Vovó: Good-bye for now. I miss you already. Thank you for being my grandmother, for your wonderful life example and for the hundreds of blessings you gave me throughout my life. Until it's my time to meet you again, enjoy the rest and peace God has prepared for you with your loved ones, including my beloved son Jonathan David. What joy I feel to know that you are all together with our Lord Jesus!


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Here are some old photos of my grandmother...

On her wedding day - I believe it was 1936!

Twenty-five years wedding anniversary (1961) photo with her husband and 8 children - (my mother is the one on the top row, second from the left)



My mother with her parents on their 50th wedding anniversary (1986) - I remember attending the party, I was 9 years old!

And here are some more recent photos...

My grandmother sitting on her varanda the last time I visited her (May 2006, age 92) as she did every day for years...

I enjoyed holding her hand - she was always very affectionate!

And kissing her!

The last photo that the three of us (my mother, sister and I) took with my grandmother together - May 2006


And finally, my beloved grandmother on her 90th birthday - I have this photo on my wall!

Pictures of Daniel Sitting!

I can sit now on my own!

One-hand sitting!

I think I'll be saying good-bye to my beloved bouncy seat soon... I only like it if I'm sitting up!

P.S. Look at the t-shirt I'm wearing in honor of my grandmothers!