I feel like this is becoming a habit: Relatives come to visit and I end up writing a "good-bye" blog after coming back home, seeing that they are truly gone, and feeling sad... This time, however, it's been even harder because Daniel is also missing his Vovô. We dropped him off at the airport this afternoon and Daniel has already asked about him... How can you explain to a 16th month old that his Vovô, a very loving and friendly man who has played with him for over 2 weeks and was "living in the basement", is just not here anymore? Well, this has made saying goodbye to my Daddy even harder....
But, before I let my emotions take over, I'm trying to focus on the wonderful 16 days that we just spent together. It truly was such a wonderful time: lots of love, lots of laughter, lots of playing, lots of having fun... and there were even some tears during meaningful conversations... For all of this, I'm very grateful.
Thank you Daddy, thank you Vovô, for coming all this way to visit us! We love you so much and we are already missing you!!! Oh Lord, it's not easy being far away from our loved ones!
You know, after my dad left I have been thinking a lot about him and what a special man he is. And suddenly it hit me and I was able to clearly define what in my dad is so special: he is a very humble person, a rare example of humility. He loves God, thinks first of others, loves to serve others, is very generous when he sees a need, and just doesn't think much about himself (he says he doesn't even really look in the mirror, just doesn't worry about what he looks like!). My dad is one of the most humble persons I have ever met, and for this, I'm truly grateful. To have my own dad as an example of humility, something that I strive to grow in, is truly a blessing for our family. I even bet that as he reads this, he will be thinking "No, my daugther, you shouldn't think that about me." Yes Daddy, that's exactly why I do; thank you for being this to me also! We love you and we can't wait until we are together again!
Vovô Daddy loved taking care of Daniel at the park...
Enjoying one of many wonderful dinners - this one with Maria Helena too...
He loved carrying Daniel...













