This evening, we experienced for the first time as a family the American tradition: Halloween. We invited some of our neighbors for a pot luck dinner at our house and then we all went out "trick-or-treating" together.
Our Japanese neighbor lent us a costume for Daniel and he was a cute little dragon! He wasn't too thrilled about the hat but he wore it for photos and when we went out. Thankfully, it was actually quite warm outside so the kids were comfortable in their costumes - though for Daniel, it was even too hot! It was so cute seeing the kids together dressed up... We are just so thankful that Daniel (and us) has such great friends living close by to share this experience with!
After dinner and before we went out, the kids in the neighborhood started knocking on our door and said "trick or treat!" This was the first time Jonny and I had ever given the kids sweets and I got so excited about it when they came! However, I did wish I wasn't giving them candy...I felt so bad about it that I even told some of them to make sure to brush their teeth! Uhm...I think they may skip our house next year! :-)
In all this experience however, there was something that really struck me: When we went outside, it was like our street was a different place. There were lots of people walking outside, homes had their doors open and lights on, people were greeting each other and were happy. We actually got to see for the first time some of our neighbors whom we had never seen before! So in a way, I could see one great benefit of this tradition: it is a time for people to connect with one another, however briefly. And at the same time, I felt sad. Sad that it takes a tradition like this, and in particular candy, to get people who live so close to one another to come out of their "shells." For just a few minutes though it was different... and it made me wish that it was the norm rather than the exception...
The cute little dragon.
Waiting for his little friends to arrive.
The three of them looking so cute dressed up: a dragon, a fairy and a fireman.
With our special neighbors: Irena (Justyna's mother), Justyna, Heather and Devesh.
Little dragon having dinner - the tail didn't bother him!
Our first time trick-or-treating! Daniel had no idea what was happening, but he went with the flow....
The three of them outside the most decorated house on our street.
We then went to Justyna's house and Irena, who is Polish, gave us candy too - this was the first time for her too! And Daniel walked straight into her house - he loves to play there!
Walking with Papai... This was the first time Daniel walked outside in the dark!
And with Mamae at the last home we visited...
Memorable times!














